Bryan Rafanelli Celebrity Event Producer


 

Behind the scenes Life and Times with Bryan Rafanelli, Celebrity “Event Producer”,  “Imagineer”( if you will ) and how he got to his “Career of Celebration” & latest book “A Great Party” filled with stunning visuals and stories of his most acclaimed events. – Chortle with us as we confab about keeping party’s unique on a small and large scale for normal folks like us, the pivotal moments that launched him into celeb status and the three people he secretly desires to work with!

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Welcome to Newport Living and Lifestyles. I’m Christon and joining us today is Bryan Rafanelli who wrote a book, and he’s on book tour and in Newport now, called “A Great Party” and he’s, I would say, “a premier celebrity event planner”

but you do more than weddings, you do nonprofits, corporate, private, consulting and branding.

Yes.

so you started in 1996 and have grown to become worldwide.

Even though I, you know, think I’m only a small company, I guess, perhaps, I’m not .

Well you now have over 50 people

50 employees, two offices, a full office in New York and a full office in Boston, and then in season, down in Palm Beach.

Right and you’re from Rhode Island.

Yeah I grew up in Rhode Island, right here in Warwick Rhode Island.

On Love Lane.

Which you Looove to say Love Lane…

I love to dine out on that all the time, because it’s cool right and

anybody in Rhode Island knows Love Lane. so yeah that’s where I grew up.

We just came from a fabulous luncheon

where you got to chance to talk about your book at a wonderful ladies luncheon

hosted by Kylie McCullough from the “Newport Ladies Book Club”.

Kylie was incredibly generous and actually everyone from the book club was amazing

and it got me a chance to tell my story which is so nice.

Shall we just call it Candy’s house

Candy’s house, that’s great! There is candy actually everywhere.

There is candy everywhere, that’s right.

We also have to thank Robin Homonoff from “Reading with Robin” who connected us both.

Yes, a friend, my best girlfriend in the world, who still lives here in Rhode Island, actually in Warwick Rhode Island

She told me about Robin and the rest is history

and this amazing lunch today, and The Redwood Library book event tonight, I get to meet you.

What is your favorite thing to do in Newport?

I am that kid who my sister got married at Rosecliff, my brother got married at Astors Beachwood mansion

so I get to kind of push my face through the hedges here and

I really do love that about Newport and I love architecture.

I studied architecture so to see these magnificent homes,

like Candy’s home, that is still a real home

with apparently the largest private Ballroom in Newport.

that’s what I truly love about Newport.

I grew up in Rhode Island so I love the water, I love the sailboats, it’s a all of that to me and

the scale of this beautiful beautiful seaside “village” really

is really what I like the most.

You have over 100 events annually at this point, that’s a lot to deal with.

A lot of partying, it’s true..

Do you prefer “event planner” or something more distinguished?

I love this question because I hate the title “event planner” not that there’s

anything wrong with all you event planners out there with that title.

I think it’s so much more than that, so I often will say “event producer” but maybe

that relates a little bit more to movies and film, right

I don’t like when I read “celebrity event planner” I am not drawn to that

A friend of mine actually who did work for Disney said, “We should call you an “Imagineer”

so I tested that out but that sounds weird too…

Did you feel like you needed to where Mickey ears when you said that?

You know what, I’ll accept “event planner” or “event producer” that’s fine.

all right, well, Chelsea Clinton wrote you’re forward in your book.

Yes

and she’s attended numerous events, as a speaker, as attendee and bride

mm-hmm

She states, “Nothing ever felt superfluous or repeated.”

How do you keep it fresh?

I have built a business off of this idea that everything should change all the time.

The business of party designing or party planning is all make-believe.

It only lasts maybe maximum 5 hours.

So think about that, this house hopefully will be here forever.

My party’s *snap* gone.

But they last in here….

Well sure, they last they’re lasting memories forever.

I love that idea that it’s really only a short period of time.

so then you create the fairy-tale right

because the fairy-tale does not have to last a hurricane or

or you know anything like that.

Which you have gone through on one of the weddings in your book.

Yeah my Istanbul wedding in my book.

It’s fascinating.

I hope you all look at this wedding because

I think you’re going to be like, “You’ve got to be kidding me. “

We do this 5 day event. This magnificent wedding

that was built out on a 22,000 square foot platform on the Bosphorus.

We found out that 24 hours before that the largest hailstorm at the time in Europe

was coming up the Bosphorus and therefore would drown out our wedding.

That’s a lot to deal with.

Now we can fast forward to the end of the story. It actually didn’t rain until 10 o’clock.

By 10 o’clock we had moved everybody inside the palace. They went to the after party

and never looked back, never knew that this like crazy thing was gonna happen,

and the party went so late, so they come out at like 4:00AM or 5:00AM in the morning

and it is down pouring, but after partying from 4:00PM in the afternoon to 4:00AM

nobody cared. In fact, I think they liked the idea that hey got drenched walking back to the hotel.

There’s some really great stories in your book and it’s really fascinating to read.

You’re such a nice, authentic, real, kind guy.

Just watching you throughout this whole luncheon has really been a great pleasure.

I think I know the answer to this question because I spent some time with you.

Why do you repeat clients like Alex Schuster, the Obamas and countless others keep coming back for more?

I love the question because this is a great part of my story.

The first state dinner I ever did for Mrs. Obama.

I thought was my going to be my last state dinner.

I say that with affection, that I had the luckiest moment to do this amazing party or this amazing state dinner., it was for China.

There’s so many incredibly talented people out there in the world right

so I thought well I’ll get chosen for this and then someone else will get the next one and

that will be this sort of place of honor, but this funny thing happened

so the answer to your question is

just like all of us, we are human, we connect with somebody,

we love the service that they provide, they’re honest,

they have character, the things that you just talked about, that you think I offer,

and I appreciate that. It becomes a relationship, so that’s why

I went to Istanbul and The Hamptons and Talum.

It’s really because my clients bring me there.

Much like you’d bring your interior designer, your architect, your lawyer.

If you trust someone and you love what they’re presenting to you, you bring them along.

What was the pivotal story or moment that launched you into the next realm?

I’ve had several of these situations where, and I love to tell this story,

the very first wedding I ever did, was at the Four Seasons Hotel in Boston, with a very very sizable budget, by the way

but that story is really extraordinary because

the parents of the bride, that were throwing that wedding,

they were chairing a non-profit event, I actually produced that nonprofit event, they liked what we did.

And they said, “Oh we want you to plan our daughter’s wedding!”

And I said, “Well I’m not a wedding planner.”

And they’re like, “No you’re a wedding planner.”

They allowed me with no experience to do this wedding.

Well I stepped in it, right, it was this pivotal moment that happened where

they were highly regarded in the community.

We did this wedding, it went off flawlessly, and by the way,

It was because the mother of the bride was so patient with me,

teaching me the way of the wedding, and that was literally 25 years ago.

She brought me into her circle and then their friends were like

who’s this guy Rafanelli and one thing led to another.

They own 54 malls across the country they have lots of amazing friends and so the story just took off from there.

Those moments created other moments.

Another couple that I met soon after that, that attended that wedding, they happen to be friends with the U.S. president.

They would entertain that president in their home.

I was doing their parties, so I ended up meeting this family,

this family later, soon many years later, when their daughter, their only daughter, got engaged

called and said we’d like to talk to you because we trust Elaine and Jerry, and therefore we want to talk to you.

BANG !

It all compounded.

This whole thing started because you were doing fundraising.

Right, I was doing fundraising and nonprofit and

I was actually a volunteer and I was volunteering on the special events committee.

Often when young people come to me, now, right out of school, they’re like, “Well what should we do?”

I’m often saying, “Well you need to get experience, so work on a political campaign or go and work in a non-profit.”

They need you, they need your work.

They can’t afford to have these giant staffs, but actually it’s a school for them.

You learn registration and auctions, how to ask for money, how to create a marketing plan and it goes on and on and on.

That’s my story because I ended up falling in love with the organization for the good work that they did first.

Then secondly, I got to actually teach myself how to do this

with really talented people around me, that were all volunteers.

and we did every kind of nonprofit event you could imagine.

We did, of course, the awards dinners, and the Black Tie things,

but we also did a aerobathons, and walkathons, and swimathons, and radio-a- thon’s.

I mean, it’s kind of crazy, now I don’t do those kinds of things anymore

I certainly do giant you know ten thousand person events, for let’s say, an inauguration

or we do a lot of work with sports teams, like the Patriots and the Red Sox, when they win a World Series,

which they seem to do all the time, thank you very much!!!

so we do get to be part of those giant events and to this day.

And events on a large barge!

hahaha! Your like a “barge”?

I love that story, because the mother of the bride came to me,

We did the first daughter’s wedding, on their compound, in Cape Cod, it was spectacular.

The second daughter’s wedding, she came back to me and said,

“I want to invite all my friends from New York City, my love, I want them to come to Boston, I want them to see how sophisticated Boston is.”

and this is what I want Brian, it cannot be in a hotel, it cannot be in a museum, in our institution,

it cannot be in an event space that anybody else has ever held a wedding in,

and oh, by the way, I want a view with the water.

Even here in Newport, there aren’t that any venues that are right on the water.

So I came up with this harebrained idea. We should build an island.

We built an island out of a barge, which actually is amazing because it’s flat, right,

so it’s actually a fairly easy thing to do.

The tents, the electricity, running water, giant kitchens, bathroom trailers, we built that all on a barge and

We sailed it across the harbor, put it in the most beautiful spot in Boston Harbor,

with beautiful ocean views, by the way, they also wanted an outdoor garden, so we created outdoor garden.

This is all in the book!

I think what’s kind of exciting is, if you buy the book, you’ll follow this and see how this all fell into place.

Most of your events are pretty extravagant, would you say that one stands out as the most extravagant?

Well, you know, we touched upon Istanbul and I think certainly, it’s in the center of the book,

and when you move through it, because there were five parties, and because we were in Istanbul.

In Istanbul you can get anything made, anything made, beautiful jewelry, pennies on the dollar,

let’s go!

clothes, shoes, right ! chargers…

When you look at these images in the book, we had that all made in Istanbul, it was incredible.

I went there 11 times before the wedding.

We planned it for a year and a half and so when you say extravagant, yeah actually,

culturally and in that city and everything that was available to us.

I mean I couldn’t help but walk through the grand markets, right, the grand bazaar

and see all these beautiful fabrics and all this brass and and so that was part of the story of Istanbul.

I know it’ll appear extravagant but it actually sort of matched what was supposed to be there.

And then, yeah, it was a little over-the-top.

Well that’s what makes it fun and makes you unique.

One of the images in there, is this floral ceiling with just thousands of flowers hanging from the ceiling.

There’s a story behind that. The ceiling of that location was absolutely horrible.

It was like this terrible tiled ceiling and even though the building was extraordinary, the ceiling was ridiculous.

It was like some weird sort of corporate design and we had to come up with something.

That’s why we have this giant floral ceiling, and not just to do it, even though it’s really gorgeous, and lush and beautiful.

There was a purpose behind the madness of hanging thousands of flowers out there.

Is there anyone that you have not worked with, that you would love to work with?

Wow. Yes.

I mean, there is some of the obvious people, I love Meryl Streep.

I’d love to throw a very understated beautiful party at Meryl’s house in Connecticut.

Of course I have not had the pleasure of doing anything for Oprah.

I think that would be extraordinary.

I would definitely love to do something for Melinda Gates.

I would like that sort of perfect combination of creating some kind of beautiful event that celebrates

what their foundation does and the work that they do, and they do so much,

it probably would be an embarrassment of riches, of which one to choose.

but that I think would be pretty extraordinary.

I love the impact that they are making on the world and that they will make for a hundred years from now.

She just came out with a new .org helping women in business & entrepreneurs. www.pivotalventures.org

I’m ready ! I’m ready!

Out of the seven key Rafanelli principles listed at the back of your book. All Genius.

Otherwise known as the “Rafanelli Rules”.

What advice would you list is the most important for regular folks like us throwing parties?

My favorite rule is one that just says “Beauty in Numbers”

Basically, saying to yourself ( and anybody can do this ) I’m throwing a party for a hundred people

Think about what you’re bringing into your house to do that.

How many hundred chairs, hundred napkins, probably 300 or 400 bottles of wine

He knows us well.

Okay, maybe a thousand bottles of wine.

Maybe

In my book actually, in that one rule, there’s this beautiful image of shelving that we built.

It’s like 50 feet wide, by 13 feet tall and it was about 10 shelves and we just filled it with red bottles of wine.

That wine was being used in real time during the party but it became this beautiful design.

Now it didn’t hurt that the husband loves wine so there was also that great connection

to like, “Oh my God, he loves wine!” “Paul loves wine!” “He’s celebrating wine!”

but we were actually turning it into this really beautiful design element with flowers.

I love a full gorgeous flower arrangement. There’s 50 or 60 inside my book.

That idea of down a long table, if you just did 20 individual bud vases with

those perfect garden roses or perfect peonies,

that actually creates a garden or field in a room. Imagine that on 20 tables.

You don’t have to always rely on the grand, you can actually say,

Yeah, there is a grandness in numbers and you’ll see it repeated over and over and over in the book.

A lot of your pictures have a lot of repetitive things on a larger longer scale . It looks very artistic.

That’s true. I always like, because of my architecture background,

if you have a long room, it’s screaming long table.

Long room, do a long table. If you have a square box, maybe you should do rounds and long’s.

That’s why you’re seeing that in the book.

Even the cover of the swirling table. It’s really to create this energy that goes through the party.

That doesn’t really cost anything.

The pictures just create this energy level that just you just want to keep reading more and learning more.

I love that.

What can people take away as something that’s the most expensive thing at a party and replace it

with something that’s maybe more affordable, but still has a great impact?

When I’m talking to a father of the bride, and I get “marry” like ten times a year,

I always say, think about this, if a glass of champagne, as fantastic and chic as that is for every guest

If you did that for a hundred guests and each glass is twenty-five dollars, you can do the math.

Wouldn’t it be better to have champagne on the bar and available to everyone, if they drink it.

Move that money over, so move it into something that really matters to you.

Whether that is flowers or that’s big impressions when people walk in the room. I really believe in that.

Like all these tiny little things, are amazing at a dinner party, but quite honestly what do people really see?

They look across the room, they see the fireplace so something grand should be on there.

They look across the room and they see the bar maybe there can be something tall there too.

That’s one of my rules of “Shoulders and Above”

Really think about what does the room feel like when it’s full and

therefore maybe you do need to rob from down here and bring it up here.

All of your parties are known for their personalization.

mm-hmm

How do you pull that out of your client because every party is so unique to each of them.

Well and it should be. This is your celebration.

I often say this is not my wedding. It’s not my party.

It’s my job to present you, to curate down 20 years of experience, all the amazing choices that are out there.

I mean it’s unbelievable what’s available in the rental market, what your florist can provide,

but you know you need to sort of, you need to curate that down.

With a client I’m often saying well what are you drawn to?

I love asking the question of, “What’s your favorite party scene in a movie?” and see what they come up with.

It’s sort of a fun game to play. Mine is actually “Meet Joe Black” with Brad Pitt.

I love that movie, but I love the treillage and the twinkle lights. I mean I think it’s really great !

The Great Gatsby with Leonardo DiCaprio, okay that is gonna say something!!

If you come up with that and there’s exploding confetti everywhere and a champagne bottle squirting everywhere…

You probably would like that!

That says something, so you can imagine what your party’s supposed to be.

I love to say, “What do you want?” “How do you want to feel the morning after your party?”

What do you want to remember?

Do you want to remember that it was kind, and intimate, and sweet?

Then it should be in a small room and everything should be cozy with lots of candlelight.

No I want it to be like bangin’ over the top!

Well yeah, we need to put some confetti guns in the ceiling. We need a killer D.J. we need lots of color to create excitement.

Confetti Guns…

Confetti guns, there’s actually this big giant image in the center of the book of confetti falling all over.

This is an Istanbul, it was the after party. It was after the rain and

I always point to the image, to my friends, and I’m like

See that? That’s me

I’ve had four martinis at that point, in probably one hour.

I was so relieved that it didn’t rain.

Do you have a failing forward moment in your career?

Failing forward means, I learned something,

something happened

and therefore I became better from it.

At almost every event, no, this is true, I do have a failing forward moment and I know my team does.

That’s what we learn from, right, so experience is life’s best teacher.

Yes so that wedding cake that was six feet tall that was kind of ridiculous to begin with, that was leaning…

We actually had the bride and groom come over and cut the cake before first course, because we were so afraid that the cake was gonna fall over.

Well so we learned from that…

My own sister’s wedding here in Newport at Rosecliff Mansion, I had this crazy idea, I don’t know why

We had a wedding cake on every table

Now this is like literally my first or second wedding

I don’t know where that idea came from

My mother loves more, so forty cakes lined in the back.

It’s one of my favorite images in my sister’s wedding album, you saw all the cakes lined up.

The waiters pick up the cake, because I wanted the trays on their shoulders.

Up goes this beautiful cake, icing on the cake, beautiful Rhode Island baker, goes up on the shoulder.

First one “Boop!” right over, hits the floor.

Second one, “Boop!” right over it

This is all in back, so now the caterer comes to me and is like Bryan, come on!

We’ll have them hold them here.

I’m like no, no, because I’ve always had this image.

Okay so failing forward, never do this.

At the same time, you know there is the photograph of them holding in front of their chests.

They’re all holding these cakes and it was still amazing.

Those are things that, inside my business, we talk about them, in real time now.

We have a hashtag that you send “what you would do different”

That all gets populated within the company and so the next week when we do a debrief.

We can go through, and it’s not to tear the event down,

it’s just to say these are really best practices that we could learn.

At home you must be doing this, whether it’s Christmas after Christmas, or whatever, birthday after birthday.

You learn different things to do.

I’ve had lot’s, I had one in the White House.

The Italian state dinner, at the last moment, the last dinner for the Obama’s, a state dinner for Italy.

The room is set, the press corps is coming in. And I look,

and a candle in front of the president’s table on a candelabra

was tipping and it was tipping into a glass sleeve that was over and it

started to create a burn mark, so now I wasn’t afraid that it was gonna fall over,

but the photographs from all the press is shooting this way,

they would see this crooked candle, so I turned to the usher of the White House

and I said, “Hey Daniel, let’s correct this.”

He’s like, “Okay, are you ready?”

Now there’s all the guests are coming down, anyway, I get a candle, I get a sleeve,

I take it off, he takes the candle, we switch it out,

I push the candle back down on the arm of the candelabra and it snaps,

candelabra arms drops, hits the custom-made cement Italian charger.

I don’t know why I insisted on cement chargers,

hits it, breaks into three pieces,

Okay now, everybody’s here now,

There’s no reason that the press would be photographing this at that moment because

The President wasn’t in the room.

but I mean, I was starting to sweat!

so I pick up the glass, my assistant runs over with a candle and another sleeve, we fix it,

and Daniel looks at me, brushes off the table and he’s like, “I think I should change out the glass wear.”

The fail is that maybe the whole glass thing with the candelabra burning into the glass wasn’t such a wise idea

but you know what…. These things are gonna happen.

Well anything can happen, anything can happen at a party!

I do say that if we’re planners and if you plan to the last second of your party,

that when something kooky happens, something weird that you didn’t expect,

something didn’t come, it’s not the size you thought it was.

If only one of those things happens…

Its not that big a deal.

You have a good story.

If five of those things happen, that’s not good.

Yeah! Your parents are partyers

and almost like a little competition

I don’t think they are partyers like you.

I just like a little champagne

How did they influence your life?

I dedicated the book to my mother specifically because

and I say to the woman who celebrates everything,

everything in our family much like a classic American family was a celebration,

our birthdays, and Easter and st. Patrick’s Day, and over, and over, and over it was always celebratory.

I liked the malted milk balls in the tennis shoes for the winning of a game.

right, yeah

It is the simple little things.

In my introduction, I write about the little things that our family did when they would win something.

My parents would always celebrate it.

They didn’t just say good job, it was like they turned it into a theme party

when you got a report card.

Those things we remember.

You made a cake with an “A” for your sister Toni, love that, just simple little things.

Because she got an “A” , she got an “A” cake

Those little things, actually for me, as you can, see propelled me into this life of creating a career of celebration.

My work is my life and I love to do that.

Everybody wants to know, what your life was like

Everybody? You all want to know?

when you first started? Were you in a one-bedroom apartment eating ramen noodles?

What was your life like when you first started your career?

I am one of those, I don’t know.

All I’m gonna say is this,

is that, in the first part of my life,

and sometimes I think it was the best part of my life.

I did like everything, I went everywhere.

I never thought about the risk factor or the what if something terrible would happen.

When I first got into the business it’s probably why I was $30,000 in debt really fast

but I was really living the life I imagined.

And that was important when I look back on it now. I took all that risk.

Yeah, maybe I was spending a little bit too much money on that triplex apartment that I really couldn’t afford

but I threw pretty great parties in that apartment.

Got to get better some how!

Think about that right ! I would invite my clients, I would invite my friends in the business

and we throw these grand parties and

so they were like, okay, this guy’s on to something and so there was a connection there

but I was always living a little on the edge

and I think that’s okay

Knowing your history with parties and planning. What is the secret recovery cure?

A hangover cure?

Everybody has one.

Don’t drink.

Don’t get started.

I have this funny game that I play and I love playing it with my

I have lots of nieces and nephews, who love to stay over, I’m a good uncle.

but if they come home a little tipsy or we both do, I line up eight glasses of water on the kitchen counter.

and I’m like we are going through every one of these.

They are called water shots

These are tall boys by the way, non of these little one ouncers.

oh yeah, that is what I call a water shot, everybody’s got to do a water shot!

My godson, Jack, always would be like, “Aw Uncle Bryan, come on.”

because he would get to like three and a half

and I’m like, “Nope, you got to finish them off, you gotta finish it, you’re gonna feel so much better tomorrow.

One last question,

What is your signature dance move?

Alright, we gotta clear the furniture out

We might have to clear the furniture out! Alright!

Now this is where you know I’m having a really good time at a party.

I’m a jumper

So I start to jump, that’s what I’m having a really good time, can I get some music?

I kind of want to jump with you

You go to wait for it, wait for it, wait for it, wait for it. Hey!

Hey!

That’s awesome!

Thank you for dancing with me!

I hope that we can have a glass of champagne later on after your

Just one?

event at The Redwood Library.

Maybe two!

Can’t wait

Thank you so much for joining us today

and we look forward to seeing you on

Newport Living and Lifestyles

VLOG | Bryan Rafanelli picked a story from his book A Great Party


Charming and talented Bryan Rafanelli speaks to one of his celebrity party creations that I randomly flip to in his new book “A Great Party” which is actually filled with a Great Many Parties! Stunning Book. 100’s of events a year & worldwide & Named top event planner in Vogue, InStyle, Bazaar, Martha Stewart Weddings, BizBash & The Knot. Link to have your own coffee table book ~ https://amzn.to/2OwhP9n

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Do you want to go to a certain one?

I was just gonna open it up and randomly pick a story!

Oh WOW, living dangerously!

I hope that like that story, nonono just joking hahahaa

Welcome to Newport Living and Lifestyles, I’m Christon and joining us today is

Bryan Rafanelli from and author of “A Great Party” and he’s a celebrity event

planner and I would like you to just randomly open a page in this book and

tell us a quick story about one of these fabulous party’s.

Are you doing it or am I doing it?

You want me to do it?

yeah !

okay ! Ready and…….

Alright ! This is a polo barn

right in Aspen Colorado and what’s amazing about this is

that you could actually literally eat off the floor in this polo barn, it’s so

spectacular, but it had this amazing metal armature that shot across it , so

you know it was screaming for 10,000 Bogan via hanging from it, and so

that’s actually what we did. This is a wedding with 450 people. This is an enormous

stage with a 50-piece Orchestra all in white jacket, it was stunning, and it was

black-tie too and so when you were outside it was like this giant horse

barn so we wanted to make sure that when you stepped in you felt like you were at

a beautiful glamorous black-tie affair.

Tell us a little bit about your book tour.

Well, where do I begin? Actually to me it’s like one long party, so I

literally get to go across the country, and what’s been so amazing is people

like you and people like Candy have been throwing these beautiful lunches and

cocktail parties that turn into parties so it’s not just about sitting there

signing books, it’s about storytelling, because that’s what this book is really

all about, but also we’ve had some good times, you know we’ve had confetti

cannons and DJs and and that’s the idea.

He is adding me to the guest list as we speak. Gentlemen!

Lot’s of champagne….

That’s what this tour is all about,

so I’m very excited and and we’ve been going up and down the east coast

and we’re going to Palm Beach, and Houston, and Dallas we’re going out to

the west coast. I was just in London. It’s been fun, we’re not fooling around

I’m gonna do a little flip through this book because the pictures

are so very fabulous. You have to get one today. Where can they find you?

They can find us on our website www.rafanellievents.com, @rafanellievents instagram

We are on Amazon, go to your local bookstore and especially here, right in Newport.

I got this at ” Island Books “

“Island Books, I was going to say go to amazing “Island Books”

and get a beautiful copy of “A Great Party”

Thank you so much guys, we look forward to seeing you on

Newport Living and Lifestyles

Thank you!

Thanks Bryan

VLOG | Photo Contest Winner

WINNER OF THE NOVEMBER PHOTO CONTEST GIFT GIVEAWAY IS ANNOUNCED! A $100 GIFT Certificate and a bottle of bubbly from Meagan Zarba LMT of Everything Ohm Massage and Wellness and guest judge & lifestyle photographer Vessi Vlasseva Photography & Creative

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Welcome to Newport Living and Lifestyles and Welcome to the November photo contest.

I’m Christon Gibson and joining us today is Meagan Zarba and guest photographer Vessi VLasseva.

Say that 3 times while your dancing. It’s go a good disco beat to it.

Today we’re gonna find out who the winner is of the monthly photo contest

How do you enter the monthly photo contest?

You have to hashtag #NLandL

Which stands for Newport Living and Lifestyles!

Fantastic! so Vessi did a great job of picking only five photos.

I don’t know how you did it.

It was difficult.

How many were there?

There’s a lot

A lot! I only looked for the month of November. I didn’t look past the month of November.

There is probably at least 100, I would say

Wow!

Yeah, people are doing a great job of hashtagging.

Every winner, every month, gets a gift certificate and a bottle of bubbly

Today our host is Meagan Zarba

Would you like to tell us something about what the winners will receive and what you do.

Absolutely, I’m a licensed massage therapist and health coach and I

work with people. I specialize in helping people have less pain in their

body, chronic pain, acute pain, I work with people who are in rehab programs, people

who just want to feel better in their body and I’m

offering $100 giftcard to come work with me in any capacity.

I practice deep tissue, myofascial release, just simple relaxation, Swedish massage,

I also incorporate marma point therapy, which comes from Ayurveda

if you’ve heard of it, if not, if you’re curious, come talk to me.

I could probably talk for hours about everything that I do.

I do have two locations.

On Monday and Tuesday I’m located here at Stella Mare in Newport it’s 91 Long Wharf and then

my other location is Wednesday and Thursday in Middletown, inside Wyatt Square, its 575 East Main Road.

You can see me at either of those locations and

I’m really excited to work with you and meet whoever the winner is

They can book appointments for you straight through Facebook and Instagram.

Facebook @massagewithmeag Instagram @meaganzarba

Also, by my phone number, which I’m not sure if we are putting that out there….

Let’s do it!

Go for it!

Yeah! Call me! 978-870-8161

or you can reach me at my email

which is Maegan@everydayohm.com

my website is EverydayOhm.com

Your Instagram and Facebook?

My Instagram is @MeaganZarba and

You can find me on LinkedIn by the same name @meaganzarba

I’m the only one that has that name.

Well I love your name and this is a beautiful space to work in with a piano and gongs, really gorgeous space.

It’s a really special space. Stella Mare is also used as a rental space for micro weddings, corporate parties, private

parties and any of that jazz. It is a gorgeous place to hold events.

Yes, I teach yoga here. The owner of this

space is super passionate about holistic health and wellness and she invites any

of that to be part of the space when it’s not being rented out for events so

We are actually home to Newport Kundalini , which is a type of yoga.

It’s a really big community here.

Every Tuesday night there’s a class at 6:00PM Kundalini Yoga and

on Tuesday mornings I teach a regular Hatha alignment based flow and

I also do private yoga, small group yoga and just teaching people how to move their bodies in general.

My whole background is in exercise science and psychology originally.

I used to be a personal trainer so I’ve been studying the body

and the workings of the mind and the body for probably 15 years.

How did you guys meet?

Through my husband and her boyfriend.

I was dying one day. I was having horrible, horrible back pains and her boyfriend who works with my husband,

said you have to go see Meagan, she is life changing and she fixed me.

I’m honored to be a part of anybody’s healing process and thank you very much.

Vessi tell us about your photography, your history, how you got started, your passions.

I am new to Newport. I moved here from Colorado in May.

I started photographing when I was 14 years old in high school.

I did it as a second major in college and then once I graduated college.

I decided that photography was going to be my side hustle.

About 3 – 3 1/2 years ago it turned into my full-time job.

I’ve been doing it ever since.

I’ve had a lot of clients in Colorado that I’ve worked with.

I primarily work with interior designers on interior design photography.

I do a lot of lifestyle shoots with people and products.

That is what my main focus is, however I’m open to new ventures in photography,

which is really really cool.

Then I also do some graphic design work as well, because my other major,

because I couldn’t just be an art major, according to my parents, was advertising.

I do all of that stuff as well.

Some clients use me as kind of a little more of a full-service, small boutique-y agency,

others just come to me for a la cart services

It just depends on what people need.

A women of many facets. How can they find you?

You can find me at VessiVlasseva.com

and my photography, design work and all of my contact information can be found there.

Fantastic, thanks ladies, are we ready to check out some of these photos?

I picked 5 photos off of the #NLandL hashtag for November.

Should we start with this one? This one is by @MermaidMasterpieces

She’s got fantastic work.

It’s so so pretty. It’s just the sky and the ocean.

It’s just absolutely beautiful.

I love of the colors and the reflections.

I love that it all blends together.

It looks like a painting.

I want to hang it over my bed.

That would be a great canvas.

You get lost in it.

Yes! it’s beautiful!

And it looks very mermaid-ish.

How many likes does she have, 22 others liked it,

so go check out @mermaidmasterpieces

She has really fantastic work and she DESERVES the props!!!

She has a lot of beautiful work on her page, I kind of stalked everybody a little.

She has a Christmas cards! check out her Christmas cards!

CUTE! That’s awesome!

The second photo I chose is by @l_Double

and the reason I liked this photo is because it looks a little urban for Newport

It gives the city a little more of a city, like a big bigger city vibe.

I really like it and also girls who skateboard are cool!

yeah!

That one was personally my favorite.

And this one got 136 likes.

Nice work Lee Abney!

He’s one of the favorites around town by the way

I have not met him.

Each of his photos really exude a lot of mood, you can completely tell that they are his work.

You guys definitely check it out @l_double

You know everybody!

Well doing this, you meet more and more people for sure.

The next photo I chose is by @TimNewportRI

It got a 179 likes. I don’t know if Tim’s a professional photographer or if this is something he does on the side.

He works at Discover Newport and by the way,

He is a bartender at the Black Pearl, so go check him out there as well.

He’ is always out and about highlighting Newport for Discover Newport

Cool! I saw a bunch of photos.

It’s just really, just such a pretty composition.

Calming.

Even the 3 that you picked so far really show so many different sides of Newport so look forward to seeing more.

Yeah, I tried to do that.

I thought that was beautiful.

It’s very calming and relaxing and this is actually a snapshot of the video that he had.

You can just hear the birds chirping and it’s really beautiful.

We couldn’t print that.

Our next contestant is @emdiggity_

She got 124 likes on her image. It’s a picture of her and her dog, I think at the beach.

So cute! I love it !The dog is on point !

Yes! You don’t know how many pictures I have tried to get

of my dog hanging out the window and I cannot do it!

They are not paying attention.

She really captured this so perfectly.

Even as a photographer, I can never nail anything like this, ever.

So good job, way to go, this is perfect,

you should frame it, I hope it’s on your wall, I love it.

I actually want to get a picture of him, which I’ve been trying to do for so long, with the caption that reads

“and I always think they’re waving at me, like a baby in a carriage”

cause they are always waving at the dog like they are so cute!

Good job

Last photo is by @K__Elizabeth.

She got, oh gosh, 968 likes!

She’s pretty popular! I have not met her yet but we should definitely make that happen!

I just loved this photo at the beach, it’s so pretty.

The lighting.

She actually has verbiage here reads,

“Stormy night” so it must have been a stormy night.

It’s just a very pretty, peaceful beach image which just makes me think of Newport.

I love how she captured so many different colors on the beach and the sky it’s really popping with that blue.

What do you like about it?

I love that you can see the storms starting to roll in but it looks so the calm and peaceful.

There’s really a lot going on to it.

I feel like it brings in a lot of different moods rather than being cohesively one.

That’s @K__Elizabeth so check out her stuff.

Vessi being our professional guest photographer,

What is the winner of November!

It is so hard to choose and I love them all and I wish everyone could win but

I am going to go with @MermaidMasterpieces

Just because I would hang this on my wall if it was printed on a canvas. I think it’s beautiful!

Congratulations! Great ! Fantastic ! so we can invite @mermaidmasterpieces here together with us and

take a group photo and we can post that as well!

We look forward to seeing you !

Excited to meet you!

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August Photo Contest WINNER


WINNER OF THE AUGUST PHOTO CONTEST GIFT GIVEAWAY IS ANNOUNCED! $100 Gift certificate and a bottle of Bubbly from Kevin Hegerty of 12 Meter Charters and guest judge and photographer Cory Silken

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Welcome to Newport Living and Lifestyles.

I’m Christon and today is the August photo contest of the month.

Anybody who hashtags #NLandL enters to win.

You can also tag @NewportLivingAndLifestyles if you wish.

You will all be seen and one winner will be chosen today!

Joining us is guest photographer Cory Silken.

Cory Siken Photography, right on Thames Street and

Kevin Hegerty from 12 Meter Charters

who’s offering $100 gift certificate and a bottle of bubbly

That’s one ride, right?

One sail on one of the 12 meters in Newport.

Tell us a little bit about 12 Meters,

Where you’re located and your boats.

We’re down on Bowens Wharf. 12 Bowens Wharf

and we have a couple of America’s Cup boats. Colombia and Heritage.

whoever wins this will enjoy a fun sail on hopefully Columbia with me.

Have you ever been on one of the charters?

Yeah I have, actually that’s where I met Kevin years ago .

Certainly one of the best charters in Newport

when you want to get out for an afternoon or an evening.

Have you taken photos of the boats or with the boats?

Yeah they are also some of the most beautiful boats in the harbor for sure.

Certainly these old boats have the graceful lines that new boats just can’t quite match.

Yes, for sure, definitely had some of the most beautiful photos of Columbia.

I am looking around his gallery right now.

So if you want to see some pretty pictures of Columbia come in the gallery.

Do you have any crazy fun stories about your charters that you can actually say out loud?

We meet all types of people. We are on the water every day, we meet people from all walks of life.

When they get on the water it’s a great experience for them.

I have to say he’s been really super busy so it was really hard to put him down.

so we’re really happy to have 12 meters a part of our show today.

Thank you for having us.

Where can people find you on the website? Do they need to buy tickets in advance?

The website is 12MeterCharters.com

or you can come down, we have a little kiosk downtown.

You can buy a ticket there for a fun sail.

We do a lot of corporate events and team-building. We don’t just race on the boat.

We actually just won the 12 Meter World Championships.

Hurray! Congratulations!

Thank you!

That’s so exciting!

yeah I was a pretty extraordinary event.

How many 12 meters were there?

The biggest gathering of 12 meters ever in the US, there were 22

12 meters from all over the world.

Yeah and this was a really busy summer for all of sailing in Newport.

You can see one of the s-class photos behind us here.

We also had the s-class 100th anniversary here in Newport this summer,

which is actually what my new book is about, which my father wrote and I did the photography for.

The S-class was the Herreshoff S class was designed and built up in Bristol RI, Just near by here.

The boats were originally designed in 1919, there were

about a hundred boats built and roughly half of them still exist. We had

21 boats on the bay racing here. There were a few others that are in racing

condition but weren’t able to make it, but still it was extraordinary having so

many of these old boats still racing so competitively, you know, we talked about

racing, well certainly, you can see in the picture behind us that they are tight and still very competitive.

You really have amazing photos, how did you get started in the photography world.

I started in photography back in school.

I was always into out-door adventures and

wanted to be able to show the gorgeous scenery with all my friends and family, when I would come back.

I grew up sailing, so certainly I blame my parents for that aspect of it.

It’s nice to blame your parents for everything, you know, even our personal shortcomings.

Yeah and I’ve just taken it from there.

yeah that’s great

I just saw recently on Facebook that you’re with some really

extraordinary people including Annie Leibovitz.

It was quite an extraordinary event, Greta Thunberg, who is an environmental activist from Sweden was

coming across the Atlantic with Team Milizia which is IMOCA 60 ocean racing team.

They brought her and they sailed her across the Atlantic because

she didn’t want to have the environmental impact of flying in an airplane.

You know, of course, that is also a great media for sailing and promotion of sailing

having her come on this boat. Quantum Sails also sponsored this team and they just

arrived. With the wind of course, you never know when the transatlantic

crossing boat sail boat is going to arrive and they came in late Tuesday

into New York and it was pretty extraordinary to see her and all the

fanfare in New York Harbor, even even despite that lousy weather and then

Annie Leibovitz was out there making a portrait of her as well, so we

got to hang out with her in the morning and it was it was quite a special day.

Where can people find your artwork?

My website CorySilken.com

You can also look for @silkenphotography on Facebook and at @silkenphoto on Istagram.

It’s really fantastic, so you mostly focus in the sailing community?

Mostly yachts, although I do shoot some portraits and some interiors as well.

My work with a number of regatta sponsors and shipyards and private yacht owners and

do some book projects and of course fine art as well around yachting and local scenery.

Cory’s chosen five photos or eight photos? How many photos did you choose today?

We have 8 photos from the Newport Living and Lifestyles photo contest.

We’re gonna take a look at them and hopefully

you’ve chosen the winner so stay tuned to the end and find out who the big winner is!

This first one is a neat shot from @Kara_Ann322

It’s a photograph of the reflection of the bridge at sunset or sunrise and some sunglasses on the beach.

The bridge is very popular, yeah wow, I love the colors in this, almost opalescent, iridescent, fairyland like.

What do you like about it?

I just like the picture.

I just like it.

I like it a lot.

And that’s how you should view photography,

if it’s something that you like, there’s there’s no more rationale needed.

If you like it, you like it, and that’s good enough, that is certainly a lot of my

customers here in the gallery. Something that when you connect with it , that’s that’s all you need to know.

She had 131 likes on this, so that’s great, good job.

Yeah and the next one is from @AnnM816 which is a photograph of bird.

It’s a hummingbird.

A hummingbird, yes.

Gorgeous colors.

Wow, that’s beautiful.

wow it’s so just clear.

Yeah it’s a very crisp image and very very nice with the

pink against the green background. There must have been some other trees

or bushes behind it. Yeah it’s very pretty.

and it’s hard to choose and narrow it down to 10, We have some really great local photographers and

just people with even with their iPhones, so this is, this is not an easy feat,

that’s why I bring in the judge photographers.

Yes and the next one that we have here is from @TimNewportRI and

it’s photograph of Newport Harbor with

some of the rocks in the foreground and it’s a really pretty shot.

Yeah gorgeous the reflection I just love the way the ocean here really picks up on pinks and

The pastels in the clouds and just the curve of the cloud

in the sky really brings your eye into the image very nicely.

I like it.

He likes it, “Mikey Likes It”

The next one is from @JMich78photography which is a

photograph of some poppies in a field with some cloudy sky in the background.

It’s really nice. I think the color of the sky, the kind of blue gray, as it goes

against the bright yellow of the flowers, sunflowers.

It’s a really nice contrast and I’ve seen a lot of these ominous clouds here a lot lately.

Do you like it?

Of course I like it.

Sunflowers are so cool

It’s going to b the ongoing theme of every picture now.

It is.

Alright and and the next one is from @SailOnHopeSan and of course it wouldn’t be very

good if we didn’t have any pictures of boats in here. This is a great

picture of a boat in the fog, with I’m assuming, that’s the sun trying to break

through the background, which is a scene we’ve seen all too often this summer in Newport.

Right Fog.

and you know they won laughs last month too!

Oh did they? okay

Oh yeah! Patrick and Monica, they charter “Hope San”, their sailboat.

They always get really great photos out on the water.

Here we have one from @l_Double

I really like his work a lot.

Reaching into the sun of the road.

Lee Abney has really fantastic stuff you can always, always know when it’s his picture. It’s really unique.

Yeah, you’ll have to check some of his stuff out. Nice work Lee.

230 Likes, that is a lot! Good job

The next one is from @DMN-images

It’s kind of a neat shot at the beach with

some glow sticks I guess.

Do we have rave parties here that I’m not aware of?

Right?

Are you guys going to the rave parties?

Ya know, at 4AM you never know what’s gonna happen.

That’s true.

I don’t think that one was quite a 4AM

A neat shot nonetheless,

Nice creativity in this bunch of images.

DMN_Images, 107 likes, 3 days ago. Good work.

Then this next one which is which is my favorite.

Oh could this possibly be the winner? this is it?

This is the winner! drum roll….

@Anastasia_M_Arnold

Anastasia!

It’s a shot at the beach, with the lifeguard tower and a surfboard and a

group of presumably either surfers or lifeguards more likey.

It’s framed really nicely. It’s got a nice mood to it and just nice muted

color for the scene which works really well with it.

Makes it pop.

A little bit misty on the water.

I love what she says here. What does she say

Stand 5 is my hangout place. I’ve

never enjoyed the beach as much this summer as before, so peaceful.

Congratulations Anastasia Arnold.

Congratulations, great photo.

You can come on down to Cory Silken

store located at 518 Thames Street.

518 Thames Street and collect your bottle of bubbly and you’re sailing tour.

We’ll get a really fun photo with you, right guys?

Yeah absolutely, can’t wait to meet you.

Congratulations to everybody who enters.

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SIREN Womens Cooperative with Sarah Nadimpalli & Suzanne Ramponi

SIREN Women’s Cooperative is growing daily with over 50 members and you might want to consider growing with them. Women helping Women. Sarah Bergman Nadimpalli SIREN Founder and Suzanne Guarino Ramponi of Your Soul Discovery tell us about their community, their events, why people are jumping on board with the SIREN Women’s Coop, the passion behind this organization, the symbolic meaning behind the name, the benefits they offer, how you can participate, and their collaborative new book “Women Words and the Water”, a collection of inspiring recipes & stories written by your neighbors and Siren Members with profits benefiting SIREN’ own “Ready to Work Exchange Program”

The S.W.C. Books has arrived! The Book Launch & Signing date is set! Come July 20th 10-1130 @ Blithewold Mansion, Gardens and Arboretum, 101 Ferry Road Bristol RI and learn more about SIREN and purchase a book that goes to a great cause.

 
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